The Essential Role of Pet Keeping for Children's Healthy Development

Whether you decide before or after you have children to bring a pet into your lives, it is important to consider the effects it will have on children's healthy development throughout their early years. The essential role of pet keeping for children's healthy development is a topic all too often overlooked. Children's healthy development depends on the way you introduce a pet and the care you give a pet while your kids are in the vital stages of development.

Before you choose a new pet to bring home to the family, there are many important factors in picking the right one! Deciding what type of animal you want is the first step. The best pets for families are typically cats and dogs; they have stable lives and can easily become a part of a family, aiding in children's healthy development. Most families will thrive more efficiently if they avoid choosing exotic pets such as spiders and snakes as they can become frightening for younger children, and the novelty often wears off.

When you bring home a new pet, you should always train them in obedience and respect. In doing so, children will development a sense of responsibility, even if they are not the ones directly responsible for the pet's care. You must enforce the rules that you set for your new pet so that children will develop a healthy yearning to guide their pet in the right direction. Pet's can be a great part of a family and bring new light and enjoyment to a home. Many children find that pet's are great companions long before they can realize what a friend truly is. Keeping a pet will not only teach your child respect and responsibility, but also what a loving and kind relationship is.

Many parents focus in on the way their children development from the day they are conceived. Whether you have a cat or a dog there are important things to focus on as well. Initially, many children may not be prepared for the arrival of a pet. It is equally challenging for a child to deal with the death of their pet. It can be a difficult time, but many children have their first understanding of life and death through their pets. To be sure that your children will be able to handle what can be a significantly trying time in their life, you should keep your pet's memory alive even after they pass. Find a memorial pet urn to keep your cats remains in and a special dog urn to lovingly respect your pooch and let their memory live on forever. Doing so can greatly help your child deal with the loss of a pet.

Natalie Aranda writes about pets and family. It is equally challenging for a child to deal with the death of their pet. It can be a difficult time, but many children have their first understanding of life and death through their pets. To be sure that your children will be able to handle what can be a significantly trying time in their life, you should keep your pet?s memory alive even after they pass. Find a memorial pet urn to keep your cats remains in and a special dog urn to lovingly respect your pooch and let their memory live on forever. Doing so can greatly help your child deal with the loss of a pet.

Why Pet-keeping is Essential for Children's Healthy Development

As families decrease in size and we become increasingly urbanised the need to keep pets at home becomes more important for children's healthy development.

Most kids at stage will ask - no, nag - for a pet of some type. Gold fish, guinea pigs, pet mice and rabbits are generally on city-dwelling children's want lists for pets at some stage. The more conventional cats and dogs compete with more exotic species such as tortoises, snakes and parrots for kid's attention in the large animal stakes.

The lure of pets for kids was demonstrated some years ago at the height of the electronic pet phase. Kids across the world were glued to their handheld monitors feeding, walking and caring for their electronic pets.

As it turned out electronic pets were no substitute for the real things and the phase thankfully has passed.

Pets contribute in four ways to children's healthy development:

1. They teach children to take responsibility for something other themselves. Some pets are easier to care for than others but most have

to be cared for, protected and fed on a regular basis. It is the

regularity of caring for pets that is the greatest lesson for kids.

Parents may give children chores and it may not matter much to children

if they are not done. But the consequences of not caring for a pet are

generally very real for children. Fail to feed a small animal and it may

die. Forget to close the cage on the chicken pen and the dog may have an

unexpected feast. These are real responsibilities that teach real life

lessons to kids.

2. It is inevitable that at some stage pets will die. It is tough but

that is life. Animals teach kids about the cycle of life. Dogs moult,

lizards shed their skins and the call of the wild is just too great for

some species in spring. The nature's cycles become real when you have

pets

3. Pets teach kids to be empathetic. When children care for their pets

they become protective and look out for their welfare. They empathise

with their pets if they are cold, hungry or it is stormy outside. Kids

will often want the dog to sleep inside when it is cold or the cat to

come in from the rain. They often blur the line between animal and human

but at least they are emphasising with their pets - and putting

themselves in their situation. My point - empathy is a brilliant life

skill. Empathetic kids never bully and empathetic adults are brilliant

to be around. They make great partners, workmates and bosses. These

characteristics need to be nurtured in childhood and owning pets can

allow for this.

4. Youngest and only child are usually surrounded in their families by

people who are bigger and more capable than them. The opportunity to

care for a pet puts them in control and allows them to care for

something just as their parents have cared for them.

The type of pets that kids have will depend on their age, your

circumstances and their wants. From my own experience it is necessary to

instil in kids the responsibility that comes with pet ownership. Kids

will often see an animal in a pet store or at a friend's house and

immediately want it. It's a parent's job to remind children that pets

are for LIFE (of the animal) and that the fun of having a pet is

balanced by the responsibility of looking after it.

Pet ownership is a two -edged sword. But so is life. That's why kids

should keep pets.

Michael Grose is a popular parenting educator and parent coach. He is the director of Parent Coaching Australia, the author of six books for parents and a popular presenter who speaks to audiences in Australian Singapore and the USA. For free courses and resources to help you raise happy kids and resilient teenagers visit http://www.parentingideas.com.au

Why Pet-keeping is Essential for Children's Healthy Development

As families decrease in size and we become increasingly urbanised the need to keep pets at home becomes more important for children's healthy development.

Most kids at stage will ask - no, nag - for a pet of some type. Gold fish, guinea pigs, pet mice and rabbits are generally on city-dwelling children's want lists for pets at some stage. The more conventional cats and dogs compete with more exotic species such as tortoises, snakes and parrots for kid's attention in the large animal stakes.

The lure of pets for kids was demonstrated some years ago at the height of the electronic pet phase. Kids across the world were glued to their handheld monitors feeding, walking and caring for their electronic pets.

As it turned out electronic pets were no substitute for the real things and the phase thankfully has passed.

Pets contribute in four ways to children's healthy development:

1. They teach children to take responsibility for something other themselves. Some pets are easier to care for than others but most have

to be cared for, protected and fed on a regular basis. It is the

regularity of caring for pets that is the greatest lesson for kids.

Parents may give children chores and it may not matter much to children

if they are not done. But the consequences of not caring for a pet are

generally very real for children. Fail to feed a small animal and it may

die. Forget to close the cage on the chicken pen and the dog may have an

unexpected feast. These are real responsibilities that teach real life

lessons to kids.

2. It is inevitable that at some stage pets will die. It is tough but

that is life. Animals teach kids about the cycle of life. Dogs moult,

lizards shed their skins and the call of the wild is just too great for

some species in spring. The nature's cycles become real when you have

pets

3. Pets teach kids to be empathetic. When children care for their pets

they become protective and look out for their welfare. They empathise

with their pets if they are cold, hungry or it is stormy outside. Kids

will often want the dog to sleep inside when it is cold or the cat to

come in from the rain. They often blur the line between animal and human

but at least they are emphasising with their pets - and putting

themselves in their situation. My point - empathy is a brilliant life

skill. Empathetic kids never bully and empathetic adults are brilliant

to be around. They make great partners, workmates and bosses. These

characteristics need to be nurtured in childhood and owning pets can

allow for this.

4. Youngest and only child are usually surrounded in their families by

people who are bigger and more capable than them. The opportunity to

care for a pet puts them in control and allows them to care for

something just as their parents have cared for them.

The type of pets that kids have will depend on their age, your

circumstances and their wants. From my own experience it is necessary to

instil in kids the responsibility that comes with pet ownership. Kids

will often see an animal in a pet store or at a friend's house and

immediately want it. It's a parent's job to remind children that pets

are for LIFE (of the animal) and that the fun of having a pet is

balanced by the responsibility of looking after it.

Pet ownership is a two -edged sword. But so is life. That's why kids

should keep pets.

Michael Grose is a popular parenting educator and parent coach. He is the director of Parent Coaching Australia, the author of six books for parents and a popular presenter who speaks to audiences in Australian Singapore and the USA. For free courses and resources to help you raise happy kids and resilient teenagers visit http://www.parentingideas.com.au

The Essential Role of Pet Keeping for Children's Healthy Development

Whether you decide before or after you have children to bring a pet into your lives, it is important to consider the effects it will have on children's healthy development throughout their early years. The essential role of pet keeping for children's healthy development is a topic all too often overlooked. Children's healthy development depends on the way you introduce a pet and the care you give a pet while your kids are in the vital stages of development.

Before you choose a new pet to bring home to the family, there are many important factors in picking the right one! Deciding what type of animal you want is the first step. The best pets for families are typically cats and dogs; they have stable lives and can easily become a part of a family, aiding in children's healthy development. Most families will thrive more efficiently if they avoid choosing exotic pets such as spiders and snakes as they can become frightening for younger children, and the novelty often wears off.

When you bring home a new pet, you should always train them in obedience and respect. In doing so, children will development a sense of responsibility, even if they are not the ones directly responsible for the pet's care. You must enforce the rules that you set for your new pet so that children will develop a healthy yearning to guide their pet in the right direction. Pet's can be a great part of a family and bring new light and enjoyment to a home. Many children find that pet's are great companions long before they can realize what a friend truly is. Keeping a pet will not only teach your child respect and responsibility, but also what a loving and kind relationship is.

Many parents focus in on the way their children development from the day they are conceived. Whether you have a cat or a dog there are important things to focus on as well. Initially, many children may not be prepared for the arrival of a pet. It is equally challenging for a child to deal with the death of their pet. It can be a difficult time, but many children have their first understanding of life and death through their pets. To be sure that your children will be able to handle what can be a significantly trying time in their life, you should keep your pet's memory alive even after they pass. Find a memorial pet urn to keep your cats remains in and a special dog urn to lovingly respect your pooch and let their memory live on forever. Doing so can greatly help your child deal with the loss of a pet.

Natalie Aranda writes about pets and family. It is equally challenging for a child to deal with the death of their pet. It can be a difficult time, but many children have their first understanding of life and death through their pets. To be sure that your children will be able to handle what can be a significantly trying time in their life, you should keep your pet?s memory alive even after they pass. Find a memorial pet urn to keep your cats remains in and a special dog urn to lovingly respect your pooch and let their memory live on forever. Doing so can greatly help your child deal with the loss of a pet.