There is a special magic between autistic children and animals. I have personally witnessed what happens when an autistic child touches or holds an animal for the first time. This experience becomes even more special when the child has a pet of his/her own.
There are many varieties of pets suitable for children, but it may be best to wait until the child is older to consider ownership. The child should be old enough to act responsibly toward the animal of choice. Eight or nine years old seems to be the time to seriously consider pet ownership. The reasons for this is that very young children want to squeeze too tight when holding small pets and can injure or even kill their cherished companion. Also, it is best to wait until they are able to care for their pet. Assuming responsibility for feeding, watering, and bathing their pet can be overwhelming. Also cleaning the cage or bed is a big responsibility and even though it can be a great teaching process, the child may lose interest and neglect their charge. It is best to speak to the child about his responsibilities toward the care of the animal before it comes to live in the home.
Choosing a suitable pet for your autistic child can be quite a screening process. First, it must be the right size for the environment. Consideration should be given to the temperament of the animal. Sometimes children display rough treatment and a small dog, for instance, might tend to become defensive and bite the child. A pet should be healthy and have the appropriate shots to counter disease. Last, but not least, the child probably has in mind what kind of pet he/she wants. Accommodate them if it is feasible.
Our grandchildren chose to have house rabbits. They were purchased when the animals were very young. One is named Coconut and one is named Ben. Ben was named Lola until it was discovered he was not a female. Rabbits make wonderful pets.
They are not noisy, they take very little care, and they are very cuddly and enjoy being carried around and loved. Their sharp teeth can be a problem unless care is given to provide objects they can nibble on. Even then, sometimes they nip at the child. They enjoy hopping around the backyard, playing and nibbling the grass. The exposure to sun and fresh air keep them healthy.
If your circumstances will not allow owning a pet, there are many places to take your children to be around animals. Zoos provide an atmosphere where children can observe animals and not touch them. There are petting zoos, where the children can go in the pens with animals and pet them, feed them and play with them. Riding academies provide horseback riding. Autistic children do not like to have their feet leave the ground, so this may not be accepted right away. A gradual introduction to these types of animal adventures is a good idea, as many children are hesitant and fearful at first. Several visits may be required before the child warms up to the animals and feels safe around them. Be patient and participate in the experience. Your child will benefit positively from the association with warm and friendly animals. Communicate with your child even if it is not positive and enjoy the magic.
Meredith is a retired small business owner and has enjoyed retirement for a few years. She recently came out of retirement to develop an on-line affiliate business to earn money for a special project to help restore old historical cemeteries that are in ruin. The Data Connection will provide the monetary funds needed for this worthy endeavor. On-line affiliate marketing fits right into her stay-at-home lifestyle. While she enjoys writing, the rest of the business will not come so easy. The article marketing concept is strongly emphasized in the approach she is taking. She believes strongly that this will result in establishing a business with a firm foundation.
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