Children and How to Keep Your Kids Happy and Safe

Consider your children's personalities, number of children in the house, and ages before selecting a K-9. Everyone will lose out if you don't make a good choice, so take some time to be introspective about this. Are all your two kids under 9? If they are, you might not want to get the high-energy breed that might require the same amount of time and caring as your children do. Also, take into consideration how mature your children are. There are some thirteen year-olds that are not ready for dog-ownership responsibilities, while there are some 9 year-olds that are mature enough to have a dog. You have to be honest with yourself. There are many obnoxious children and there are some who have a hard time with impulse control or anger management. If your kids are always bothering you with things such as endless questions, poking, and other disruptive behavior, most likely they will act the same way with the dogs. Every dog has their boiling point, and some are higher than others. You must ask yourself this very important question before getting a dog-Is your child ready to have a dog in the house?

Some breeders who will not place a dog if there are very young children in the house. They are worried that the toddlers is too young to understand the restraints when playing, or that the dog might not be getting right attention. Puppies can learn to be shy with humans if they are treated too roughly, and a small dog can be injured accidentally by a baby. If you have a little one, you should seriously consider these things.

After you have made up your mind that your child is grown up enough for a K9 and that you are going to be able to spend enough time to watch over their interactions and the dog will receive enough exercise, it's time to figure out what does your child need in a dog. A little pet is not likely to be the ideal friend for your child if he is rambunctious and full of energy. For example, a 4-pound Yorkie is prone to accidental injuries and isn't going to be up to running around the neighborhood. You want to encourage a good relationship, in addition to safety concerns. The best bet for a child like this would be an adolescent or an adult Golden retriever. These dogs love endless ball tosses and playing with friends.

A young child may have lots of children that stop by. That is why you want to be sure that the dog you get is not an escape artist. There are some pets that just want to run, as anyone who has owned a Grey Hound would confirm. And no matter how great our efforts are, a child and an escape artist are just a bad combo. Kids leave doors ajar and gates open. Their school mates do this even more. While some guardian breeds make great companions for your own children, some may be inappropriate, because they can be too protective. What if the dog misinterprets a friendly wrestling match between your children? What if one of your kid's friends let himself into your home without knocking on the door?

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Guinea Pigs and Children! Definitely a Happy Combination

When it comes to finding a pet for children, guinea pigs are top of the list. They are naturally curious and energetic creatures that can provide tons of entertainment for even young children. Watching them play in their cage is enjoyable and often comical. At some point, your child will want to hold their new pet, and most guinea pigs are happy to be held. Of course, parental supervision is necessary because they can bite if threatened or frightened.

As a parent, you should become acquainted with your guinea pig before your child does. You will notice that they make different noises which indicate how they are feeling. If they squeak or squeal, you can bet that the little guy is frightened. Care should also be taken when you remove them from the cage. Make sure that your children learn how to cup the entire animal in their hand, rather than grab them as they would a larger animal. This ensures that your child doesn't accidentally injure their pet. Have your child sit down with their new little friend and pet them gently. Remind children that while their new little friend is getting used to them, they must remain calm and quiet so they don't scare him.

One aspect of having a guinea pig that makes them a great match for children is that they crave attention. they really aren't happy by themselves and your child will find that their new pet actually react happily when they come in the room or play with them. For the most part, they are very gentle as can be, and can even be snuggly friends. They like to play and run, and will often do 'tricks' in order to get attention. Remember if your child loses interest in their little furry friend that you might want to consider getting the pig another one to keep it company, as they thrive having friends.

One thing to watch is that many children tend to over feed them. This can be very dangerous. Make sure that the adults in the home over see the feeding and care of the guinea pig so that a child doesn't accidentally feed them something wrong or in excess. Children will want to please their pet by offering unlimited treats. Instead, educate your child about how to take care of them and how important it is to refrain from overfeeding them.

these little lovable fellows don't take up much space. They can live happily in your child's room offering them a close friend and they are much easier to take care of than a dog. However, you have to realize that a well taken care of guinea pig will live quite a while. With a lifespan of 7 years of so, you may be the one taking care of the little guy for the long-term.

Guinea pigs make great pets for children. Even young children while supervised can learn to be caring and soft when it comes to their pet. One thing is for sure, they are extremely fun animals to own and become more lovable as time goes on.

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Pets Are A Factor In Divorce

It is always difficult to part with pets when you have had them for a while, and many lawyers handle pets as if they are commodities, without realizing how the pets have become a part of the family, like another child. If the divorce is a nasty one, your ex may use pets as tools to hurt you, and decide to claim custody, not because the pets are loved, but only to hit back.

Using Pets And Children As Commodities

When it comes to children, the court decides on whatever is in the children's interest, their comfort level and security. It is similar with pets. If the home goes to the spouse, then it is more than likely that they will get the pet too. Emotional issues will surface, the pet being used to the home and surroundings will be taken into account, and many judges will decide in favour of the person who had the pet first. Pets are regarded as property and they cannot be shared. Animals are likely to get confused and disoriented if moved from familiar surroundings. They may become more aggressive as a consequence.

Very often the wife gets the house, the pets and the children. This is because both children and pets need to go together, as they will feel secure in their familiar surroundings, the idea being not to dislodge them as far as possible. But over the years, this issue has been the focus of attention, and the father ends up with all three.

A Judge can only decide what he thinks is best for the pets. It is up to the couple to behave in a mature manner and not fight for a pet that they are not really interested in. Magnanimity is the key word, and whether it is a dog or a cat, if you concede what is best for the pet, you can save yourselves from hurting each other.

Rebuild Your Life With A New Pet

You will need to face up to the fact that you have lost your pet. This is when you will need to consider moving on by getting a new one. You may still have emotional feelings for your former pet, and feel that your pet is impossible to replace, but moving on with a new one will help you to deal with your loss.

Dealing with the loss of your old pet is extremely difficult, but maturity is the key to replacing your pet with any type of pet that can be a source of joy to you and take your mind off the divorce. There are shelters where animals have been abandoned, and they need homes desperately - they also need love and care. This could solve your problem and both of you could give each other the comfort that you need.

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